As of today, Bryan and I have both had new physicals. They have been emailed to our home study agency. The home study will (I hope, oh I hope) be sent to the State of Illinois tomorrow.
Last time, the State took 10 days to approve us. I hope it's the same or shorter this time. Surely it will be shorter if it's just an update, right?
I'm working on our USCIS paperwork now, so we can send that paperwork on as soon as we get State of Illinois approval back.
Update the Paperwork Process
Step one - Physicals - DONE!
Step two - State of IL approval
Step three - USCIS approval
Step four - Poland approval
Step five - USCIS approval
Step six - wait 30 days before we can travel
Step seven - meet our children!
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Bumpety Bump
We hit a speed bump.
We were supposed to be officially approved by an entity in Poland yesterday. It didn't happen, because our dossier doesn't match up with the children's ages, plus our physicals are over a year old, plus they didn't like our background check documentation.
To fix everything (which we had to do anyway; we just weren't planning to do it before the referral was issued), we need to renew and update everything. Each step is dependent on the step before it, so we're looking at a long(er) time. Maybe we will leave by the end of the year, but I think early next year is more likely.
This is frustrating, but I have only to look at the events that rocked our area a few days ago to realize it's not that big of a deal.
This extra time will allow us to do more research, practice more Polish, have time to purge the house to make room...
and move into Bryan's closet :).
We were supposed to be officially approved by an entity in Poland yesterday. It didn't happen, because our dossier doesn't match up with the children's ages, plus our physicals are over a year old, plus they didn't like our background check documentation.
To fix everything (which we had to do anyway; we just weren't planning to do it before the referral was issued), we need to renew and update everything. Each step is dependent on the step before it, so we're looking at a long(er) time. Maybe we will leave by the end of the year, but I think early next year is more likely.
This is frustrating, but I have only to look at the events that rocked our area a few days ago to realize it's not that big of a deal.
This extra time will allow us to do more research, practice more Polish, have time to purge the house to make room...
and move into Bryan's closet :).
Tuesday, October 9, 2012
Quick update
I reviewed the updated copy of our homestudy today.
I also need to do some research/make some phone calls on acclimating them into public school, how we're going to communicate with them, make Dr.'s appointments, finish the photobooks, find out what size clothes we need, and more!
Bryan and I have had separate closets for months now...which has suited both of us quite well. Now I'm going to be moving into his, so he's had a few edicts for me to follow:
"I will not tolerate a mass of shoes on the floor!"
"Everything must be neatly hung up, no craziness!"
And I think it's kind of funny. He is really not looking forward to it. I probably need to slim down my clothes, so they can actually fit in his closet.
Other than that, we're just waiting on the packet from Poland (which probably won't be here until next week). Until that comes, we can't really do anything else as far as the paperwork goes. And we won't know when we're traveling for another week or two.
I also need to do some research/make some phone calls on acclimating them into public school, how we're going to communicate with them, make Dr.'s appointments, finish the photobooks, find out what size clothes we need, and more!
Bryan and I have had separate closets for months now...which has suited both of us quite well. Now I'm going to be moving into his, so he's had a few edicts for me to follow:
"I will not tolerate a mass of shoes on the floor!"
"Everything must be neatly hung up, no craziness!"
And I think it's kind of funny. He is really not looking forward to it. I probably need to slim down my clothes, so they can actually fit in his closet.
Other than that, we're just waiting on the packet from Poland (which probably won't be here until next week). Until that comes, we can't really do anything else as far as the paperwork goes. And we won't know when we're traveling for another week or two.
Friday, October 5, 2012
No travel dates yet...
You'll forgive the lack of witty titles, won't you?
My mind is thinking about other things.
We don't know much more. We met with our caseworker today. She has to update our home study, then send it to the state of Illinois.
In the meantime, we're waiting for a package from Poland to be sent to our agency. Once they receive that, we can submit our USCIS (federal) forms.
Other than that, most of my work will be figuring out how to deal with the language barrier, talking to the school about ESL issues, and scheduling doctors' appointments.
Yesterday, I scheduled a doctor's appointment for our daughter. It's not until we get back, of course, but talk about a surreal moment!
I expect that we will get our travel dates next week, but I'm not really sure. Today, our agency said they "hoped" we would be home by Christmas. If that's true, we will probably be leaving sooner than I thought.
I also asked our agency if the children knew they were being adopted. She wasn't sure, but said they would know soon if they didn't already.
She suggested that I create photobooks to be sent over, so they could start getting used to what their life will look like.
I can't even imagine how scary this will be for them, but within a year or two, I hope we (and they) will be adjusted.
My mind is thinking about other things.
We don't know much more. We met with our caseworker today. She has to update our home study, then send it to the state of Illinois.
In the meantime, we're waiting for a package from Poland to be sent to our agency. Once they receive that, we can submit our USCIS (federal) forms.
Other than that, most of my work will be figuring out how to deal with the language barrier, talking to the school about ESL issues, and scheduling doctors' appointments.
Yesterday, I scheduled a doctor's appointment for our daughter. It's not until we get back, of course, but talk about a surreal moment!
I expect that we will get our travel dates next week, but I'm not really sure. Today, our agency said they "hoped" we would be home by Christmas. If that's true, we will probably be leaving sooner than I thought.
I also asked our agency if the children knew they were being adopted. She wasn't sure, but said they would know soon if they didn't already.
She suggested that I create photobooks to be sent over, so they could start getting used to what their life will look like.
I can't even imagine how scary this will be for them, but within a year or two, I hope we (and they) will be adjusted.
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
Aberle, Party of Four!
On August 30, I opened yet another email from our agency.
"What do you think of these children?" the email said.
They were cute, but older than we had planned. We asked for more information, including videos of them.
Then we waited.
And waited some more.
Finally, on September 25 (which happens to be our 7th anniversary <3), we saw videos of the children. Up to that point, we (just being honest) weren't thrilled. It's really scary to think about becoming instant parents of children who might have a few problems, who don't speak your language, who will probably always need a little extra help with school, and so on.
We're very aware of the risks of adopting older children, and we've tried to think of everything we would have to deal with. We have talked to other parents who have adopted older children, we had their records evaluated by experts, but we know there will be challenges we haven't even thought of.
Starting when we saw the videos and continuing over the next few days, though, those children became our children.
So, today, we said yes.
The next few weeks will be a flurry of activity, as we prepare our paperwork to get them. Though we aren't sure of the actual date we will be leaving, we think we will be leaving in 8 weeks (I'll update that when I know). We also haven't decided whether we will stay in Poland for 5-6 weeks and then bring them home...or if we will go over there for two weeks, home for two weeks, and then go back for two weeks to get them.
We can't post any identifying information, so if you want to see pictures, or know their names or ages, you will have to ask us in person.
In any event, we are so thankful to have a son and a daughter, even though they are thousands of miles away from us. Please pray for us, that we may have the wisdom and the patience to give them what they need.
"What do you think of these children?" the email said.
They were cute, but older than we had planned. We asked for more information, including videos of them.
Then we waited.
And waited some more.
Finally, on September 25 (which happens to be our 7th anniversary <3), we saw videos of the children. Up to that point, we (just being honest) weren't thrilled. It's really scary to think about becoming instant parents of children who might have a few problems, who don't speak your language, who will probably always need a little extra help with school, and so on.
We're very aware of the risks of adopting older children, and we've tried to think of everything we would have to deal with. We have talked to other parents who have adopted older children, we had their records evaluated by experts, but we know there will be challenges we haven't even thought of.
Starting when we saw the videos and continuing over the next few days, though, those children became our children.
So, today, we said yes.
The next few weeks will be a flurry of activity, as we prepare our paperwork to get them. Though we aren't sure of the actual date we will be leaving, we think we will be leaving in 8 weeks (I'll update that when I know). We also haven't decided whether we will stay in Poland for 5-6 weeks and then bring them home...or if we will go over there for two weeks, home for two weeks, and then go back for two weeks to get them.
We can't post any identifying information, so if you want to see pictures, or know their names or ages, you will have to ask us in person.
In any event, we are so thankful to have a son and a daughter, even though they are thousands of miles away from us. Please pray for us, that we may have the wisdom and the patience to give them what they need.
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