Monday, April 22, 2013

First home visit

When we were doing all our paperwork at home, we had multiple home visits from caseworkers. In Poland, it's no different. So today, we had our first home visit which involved a translator, a psychologist, and the director of the Adoption Center. Most of their questions involved our impressions of the children, if anything surprised us, what our routine is, did we like the apartment (they said the apartment is much nicer than the lift (elevator)!), etc. They also wanted to know our school plans for the fall, medical appointments, and to know that we've been well prepared for the usual adoption issues. 

They also asked the kids some questions. These were some of the responses/questions from the kids:

"In this place, the kids are in charge!" (Really?! Maybe we need more rules! But it makes me definitely feel okay about creating more boundaries. They can handle it.)

"When do we get to fly to America?" 

When told they need to learn more Polish, they said, "We don't want to learn English. When we get to America, people will just talk Polish to us. Besides, our parents are learning Polish and we can communicate just fine."

I think the visit went well. They made a couple of suggestions and gave us some helpful information. We also need to enforce a couple of things, but couldn't explain why they had to do these things. These ladies were very helpful about explaining to the kids why. And we need to change one thing, but yes, the visit went well. I believe we will have just one more visit in a couple of weeks and then we will have our court date the week after that. 

We are going out for Polish pizza with our translator tonight. The kids put ketchup on their pizza at home, so it will be interesting to see how it's different.


5 comments:

  1. Lisa and Bryan--I so enjoy reading your updates. Bethany had told me about your blog. I am excited and thankful for your experiences. I hope the transition continues to go well and look forward to you "coming home" with your family.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Well we put French dressing on our pizza so maybe ketchup isn't too weird:)

    ReplyDelete
  3. Am SO loving all these updates. It sounds like things couldn't hardly be going any better, all things considered. What a wonderful story of love. God has brought your dear family together- your children need you and you need them. And now they will learn about God and His love for all of you. We are so thankful for this life story that God is writing for you and look forward to when you are home and we can meet your children!

    ReplyDelete
  4. So great to Skype today and here about your eastern European pizza experience! I loved mine with ketchup.

    ReplyDelete
  5. Thanks for taking the time to share the updates...I really enjoy reading thru them! I have to confess...this evening was not a good one for me...kids were tired and so is mom - not a good combo! I finally got them all in bed then came down and caught up on your blog...and I am ashamed for what I take for granted - and don't always appreciate! It's refreshing to me to read thru your thoughts as you and Bryan become a "family"...and I'm encouraged to count more blessings and less failures! And yes, just the other day one of our dinner plates met its fate on the tile floor to join the sad demise of the coke bottle! :)

    ReplyDelete